Become king of the compliment. Bid backhanded compliments and compliments that actually piss her off goodbye: you’re going to become the king of the compliment. Focus on complimenting honestly and in the moment. Avoid compliments that could be for just about any girl or other cookie cutter compliments (“you have beautiful eyes”, for example). Be specific, try to shoot for traits she values in herself, and try to only compliment things she has control over.
For example, if you compliment her figure (which she has minimal control over and may someday lose), she’ll become neurotic about what you think of any weight she gains because she thinks it’s the only thing you value in her.
Instead compliment her intelligence, her humor, her kindness, or her determination.
Make something for her. Make her a homemade gift. You can find lots of ideas in wikiHow’s crafting section or you can try your hand at Pinterest. Either way, a homemade gift shows your creativity and your deep feelings for her.
If you want to try your hand at making her something, a keepsake box decoupaged with receipts, photos, and ticket stubs from your relationship together will probably bring her to tears.
Make her a mix song. If you’re absolutely no good with making things by hand, try your hand at making a mix CD instead. Gone are the days of the mix tape, but CDs and mp3s live on in their memory. Make a playlist that tells the story of your feelings for her, chronicling your first meeting and extending to today.
olufunmi by style plus, 2face right here, boyzone everyday i love you.
Send flowers to her during the day. Send flowers to her so that they’ll be delivered to her in class or while she’s at work. A great show of affection like this, in front of lots of people, will really leave her floored.
Skip roses in favor of a non-standard flower that reminds you of her.
Give her the spa treatment. Take that standard back massage and then go the whole 9 years. Get warm massage oils, candles, a great soundtrack, and really give her a full body rub down. She’ll be melting and totally shocked at your devotion.
Cook her breakfast. Or, any meal will do, really. Cooking her a great meal, especially when you don’t normally cook, not only reduces her stress but it will be one incredible unexpected surprise. You can find lots of cooking articles here on wikiHow that can show you step by step what to do (for the kitchen inept).
Make crepes with nutella and bananas to really make her think you’ve gone gourmet.
Try pasta if you want a dinner option instead. This is easy to make, takes less than an hour to prepare, and can easily look gourmet when garnished with sun-dried tomatoes and fresh Parmesan.
Hide love notes everywhere. Get a pad of Post-It notes and write a quick love note on every single one. Then, place the notes everywhere! Hide a couple and put some out in clear view. You can put them in the kitchen cupboards, in the cereal box, on the bathroom mirror, in her purse, in the book on her nightstand, just about anywhere you can think of!
Write things like “My life is better with you in it” and “My heart breaks when I say goodbye to you each day”.
Take her camping at home. Take her on a romantic date right there at home. Set up a camping tent in the living room, put a fire in the fireplace, and cook up some snacks and fruit . Turn off the lights, open all the windows so it gets really cold, and then snuggle up together under a blanket. Pure romance without all the hassle of real camping.
