From a female Love N Singles reader on Facebook
I have been in a relationship with my man for about 18 months. When I
first met him, I never thought anything would come off it. I typically
brushed
him aside and never gave him too much thought as he is very physically
different
than what I am usually attracted to in a man. With time, I slowly
realized
that his character and personality is everything I have ever hoped,
dreamed and
fantasized about. No kidding. I decided to give us a chance. It has been
18
months now and he has started talking about long term plans i.e getting
married.
The problem is, whenever I meet or come across anyone with the physical
attributes I am attracted to, I start to second guess the whole
relationship as I sometimes lust after people who possess these physical
attributes. I really
can’t help it. I do not want to cheat on this
man if we eventually get married
but I fear this may happen. I really love this man but this is too
confusing.
Has anyone ever experienced this dilemma? How did you handle it? How
much does physical appearance play in the long run (i.e after you are
married)? Reasonable responses
please.
